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And then get massively depressed when that one says no? You should rejoice in the fact that you are surrounded by babes, all of whom are single (college women who are reading this: that goes for you, too). Granted, the odds may be good, but the goods are definitely odd. You need to appreciate the psychology of college-age women Kevin says that Wow. Kevin is sharp enough to notice this, too, about the putative ‘boyfriend’: all that sure about him. Girls her age simply have no idea what they want, and many end up as fully-grown who don’t really know what they want. Lemme get this straight: you haven’t started dating her yet.

When she told me that he would be joining us one day over the summer, she called him “my apartmentmate.”Over the spring and summer, things were moving on a very fast, positive trajectory.

Now, with only six weeks to go before the end of the academic term, things have slowed – but not for any discernible reason.

) If time were no object, I would take this as a signal to step back. Man what I would give to have those 8 years of my life turn out differently. Let me break it down for you: there will be a time in your life when you will be living alone in a big city, away from all of your friends. You are surrounded by cool people your own age all the time.

Moreover, she will be in Spain next term and I will be in Greece for my final term in the spring. The people you’ll see all day long will be your work colleagues, most of whom are not going to be your age and probably not all that interesting. Nobody is married (unless you’re at BYU or something).

He may even just be a placeholder until something better comes along, since pretty girls are often terribly insecure about appearing alone (“Why doesn’t she have a boyfriend? Often it’s just the tick-tock of the biological clock that wakes them up in a cold sweat at dawn around age 36: “Holy shit! Which means you’ve never made out with her, and obviously you’ve never had sex with her. What if you find out she’s a lazy, selfish unreliable harridan who makes your life miserable? So instead of thinking you’re crazy in love with this girl whom you barely know, why not suspend judgment. Know that a long-distance relationship is no relationship at all Let me ask you this: it’s 11pm and you need toothpaste.

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He is in love with her, but to be honest, she seems surprisingly ambivalent toward him.

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He and I have met and hung out together a few times, and while we are not going to become close friends, he’s definitely a decent guy.And at your age when you’re just learning this stuff, that’s not a constraint you need. You’re in college, for godssakes, so there should be plenty of lovely, eligible ladies everywhere.To recap: think abundance; be prepared for her to change her mind early and often; be the one chased, not the chaser; get your head on straight; go local; and be desireless. People who haven't had the chance to go to college (or chose not to) are every bit as smart as those who did. Studying at college gives you qualifications, but much can be learned through self-education. I know many men without a college degree who are wise and open-minded. While I'm very sure that there are guys that don't need a college degree to be successful, there are even more that don't. I ALSO know many men WITH a college degree who are unintelligent and, to be blunt, assholes. So when there are thousands of cute members of the opposite sex running around campus, do you set your heart on of them and ignore the rest? But you’re smarter than us, so you shouldn’t do that. The most likely thing a girl that age is going to do with her mind is to change it.