Dating site for truck drivers
My insecurities are tied to his being a truck driver and us not getting to spend time together.
You expected immediate text responses from someone who spends most of his time driving (he should not be reading your texts while he's on the road).
Please spend some time thinking about your needs, and why your gut had you in a constant panic.
Also know that breakups don't have to be about placing blame. Misery and disappointment are part of the experience, but feeling stupid doesn't help.
Instead of punishing yourself, do some brainstorming about what kind of relationship would put you at ease.
Hawks adds, “When at home, do things that make a happy ending to the past week of being apart. Build a trust in each other and never take problems out with you.” Harders emphasizes how important it is to be able to adapt to an ever-changing schedule.
For Livingstone and others, nurturing romance with someone who’s often out on the road for weeks at a time can be challenging.
“The confusion of the life—not knowing when your spouse would return home, having to deal with all the home-front ups and downs—I became frustrated.” Hawks warns of the demands a trucking lifestyle can have on a personal relationship. “Many aren’t sure if they can take the daily grind day-in and day-out for months and years.” Communicate Effectively Harders recommends setting up a scheduled time and day for the drivers to call home within a range of three to five hours, to ensure steady communication.She often finds herself relating to other truckers’ wives about running the household while her husband is away.“The first time the toilet gets backed up—do I clean it, or do I spend $200 on the plumber? It’s chores like these that remind her of her husband’s periodic absences.“When your husband is home for two days, you don’t want to ask him to fix the back fence -- you want to spend time with him,” she says.Learning to take care of household tasks that previously had been left to her husband became key.I know I can be insecure because of past experiences ... I feel guilty but at the same time so disappointed. I won't beg, but it hurts so much that he did't try to prove that he's trustworthy, and instead decided that we have no future.